Sunday, November 6, 2011

Some success with birth family search!



What a wonderful man our searcher is! While he had almost nothing to go on, he was still able to get us a tad bit of information and perhaps some birthfamily contact can be found in the future. I was able to get pictures of the house the birthmother grew up in and some info from a close neighbor who it seems still has some contact with the birthmother. I don't know quite why I feel this way as I really never thought finding the birthfamily would be of any importance to me.....but it just feels good. Even if nothing further ever happens, I at least know someone who was close to the family has seen Anna's pictures and can see she is happy and healthy and perhaps pass this along to the birthmother/father someday. And even if this is all the info and pictures I ever get for Anna, she can get some sense of her history and know I tried the best I could. I was also able to get some answers that explained why it took soooooo very long for Anna to get released for international adoption. I guess I like knowing even just a few more pieces to her history and the path Anna had to take to find her way HOME to US!

Thank you searcher Illich. I feel he did a wonderful job and charged us an extremely fair price for all he did. I know its a very personal decision to each family to search out the birth family. I just wanted to share what a positive experience its been for us overall, even without the best ending.

6 comments:

Maggie and Randy said...

I know isn't he good. We are looking forward to our report on November 10th.

Melissa said...

Glad you had a positive experience with this. I was very lucky to have our adoption coordinator be able to give us photos of Colby's birthparents and some other family members. I'm not sure I would go looking for the information but having it is nice. I guess we will let Colby decide what he would like to know. Congrats!
Melissa

Corinne said...

We too are looking forward to our final report too.From almost no leads at all he was able to find the birth mother of one of our kids.forever grateful !

Jen said...

So glad you were able to get some information. And I completely agree that Illich is great. We've been working with him to try to track down some info on my DD's birth sister. Such a nice man (and I agree that I felt the price was more than fair).

Sarah D said...

Shelley- would you mind emailing me some information about your investigator? Thanks! -Sarah
sdeetz1023@yahoo.com

Anne said...

Hi there! I recently found your blog and am so glad to see your post on this. I too want to find information on my son Evans birth family, as well as get some pictures. Illich was recommended, but I havn't pulled the trigger yet. Your post is very inspirational to help me do just that. Thank you!