Sunday, April 25, 2010

Still no release letter

We still haven't received our release letter that we need before our docs can get submitted to the courts. I have no idea if its being held up by the MOE, waiting for the outcome of next week's talks between the US and Russia when they will try and reach an agreement and keep adoptions open, or if its just making its way thru a pile on someone's desk, possibly just delayed by the horrible incident from several weeks ago. I'm encouraged by all the families making it thru court, but we just can't seem to make it that far! I thought our docs would be in the hands of a judge weeks ago, but no, still waiting. So honestly, I don't know what to be doing. I'm not buying any clothes or shoes, even though I'm sure I don't have much now that will fit her. I don't have any documents that I need to be working on at the moment, although give it another month or two and tons will be expiring, which is just fabulous given the outrageous cost of California apostilles. I finished the adorable thank you cards I plan to bring to Russia to give out with the gifts to the Russian staff and baby home. Its very frustrating and sad.

15 comments:

GuinnessandKillian said...

So, so hard. I've got documents that start expiring next month and I just don't know if I can redo them again, because I know it will mean 6 months to a year, given what we've been through and experienced so far. I'm also encouraged by court stories but am having trouble believing at the moment. I have to battle two documents (again, for about the tenth time, literally) tomorrow. Thinking of you.

Jeanette said...

It is just so unreal and sad that you have been waiting so long. Is you agency doing ANYTHING to help the matter? I would think the team in Russia should be making a phone call or something. You poor little girl is spending so much unnecessary time in an orphanage. I pray you get some good news soon.

Wendi and Terry said...

I echo Jeanette's sentiments - what is your agency doing to push this through? I am not sure what type of release you are waiting on, but I would hope your agency could do something to help expedite things. I know you have been waiting for so long - hopefully you will hear some much awaited GOOD news very soon.

Cindy Hunter said...

Shelly -

Though I'm sure it was hard to post, thank you for the update. As always, praying for you all.

Melissa said...

Oh I was wishing for good news for you. I am not sure what the hold up is. The incident from a couple weeks ago has caused so much havoc. I am praying for you and your little girl that she will be home soon.
Melissa

Amy said...

I wish there was something I could do to make you feel better - the waiting is horrible and you have been so patient!

Big hug...

Corinne said...

I am hopeful we will hear some positive news soon !!! At least we can hope !!!

Carolynn and Steve said...

Shelley,
I have been thinking alot about you guys lately---I'm SO sorry that this has been so hard. Please know that you are in my prayers and my heart. Hugs from here--

Meredith said...

Shelly,

I can't help feeling totally exasperated for you. You have been so patient. It's crazy that you are still waiting on the MOE release letter. Anyway, I'm still thinking about you and your Little Miss.

Meredith

Gloria said...

Thinking of you so often!!! Hoping you hear something really soon!!!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for updating us, I know it must make you sick to write another post about the delay. I, too, was actually wondering what your agency is saying about the people in Russia that they hire to help get all of this done. It is so frustrating to read your story - I can't imagine how it must feel to live it. It is just awful. We all feel so badly for you. Hope you hear SOMETHING soon!

Victoria

Bill and Michelle Curran said...

Hey Shelly - I have thought about you every day since all that happend and have checked in everyday hoping for some news from you. Please try to stay positive and continue to push your agency. The squeeky wheel gets the grease.

Beth said...

I check your blog daily and am praying you hear some good news soon!!! I hope your team in Russia has been sending you photo updates of your little girl. I wish there was something I could do to help you!!

Beth

dgporter said...

Shelly,
I know it must be some comfort to see so many people rooting for you...praying for you. Keep the faith.

Laura said...

Going through this process makes us feel so helpless at times...but keep the faith and soon you'll reap the rewards of having your little girl in your arms. I just know it.

Blessings,
Laura